Secret Admirer

Recent Blog Comments By Secret Admirer

• The Four Agreements By Don Miguel Ruiz (Thanks Jason Kay)

  Posted on Dec 11, 2008 at 7:33 PM

  I am very interested in having a word with you Ben. Can you please tell me WHEN this can be made possible. Thank you.... read more »

• Getting ColdFusion To Work With MS SQL Server Express 2005 Databases

  Posted on Dec 11, 2008 at 7:13 PM

  I am very interested in discussing SQL Server with you. Please tell me WHEN.... read more »

• Duckman Is My Sherpa

  Posted on Nov 20, 2008 at 9:02 PM

  Hand, Hang I'll take it! ;-) now if only I could work on my courage to actually go for it!... read more »

• Duckman Is My Sherpa

  Posted on Nov 19, 2008 at 7:51 PM

  @Ben-My dreamboat (sigh) I meant to say, one day having the courage to letting you see who I am ;-) and not worrying that you will think I am not "perfect" enough to hang with :-(... read more »

• Duckman Is My Sherpa

  Posted on Nov 19, 2008 at 7:35 PM

  @Hatem I totally agree with you. Selfishness is why the world is the way it is today. It's all about me me me. That's so sad :( My feeling is I give back as much as I possibly can and teach my children to do so as well and always hope that other people are doing the same :-) @Ben-My dreamboat (... read more »

• Intrinsic Goodness, Sex, Happiness, And Pleasure

  Posted on Nov 11, 2008 at 4:46 PM

  @Ben- Not quite sure what you mean, but if I am in a relationship I should hope that when I do make love with my partner it's because we are going to enjoy the time we are spending together and what we are doing. Not to just do it because we only did it once this week, month or year for that matte... read more »

• Intrinsic Goodness, Sex, Happiness, And Pleasure

  Posted on Nov 11, 2008 at 11:19 AM

  I am quite sure you are not the only person unable to answer that question without thought. I have been married, and if someone asked me that question I would definitely need to think about it first. Sex in a relationship should not be a task or something you schedule with the person you love. Ma... read more »

• Project HUGE: WTF, Waist Line, And Money

  Posted on Sep 17, 2008 at 9:21 AM

  Ben- Noooo, I like you just the way you are. No matter what you look like I will still be your secret admirer, you don't need to do a single thing ;-) Work out because you like it and it makes you feel happy. :) ps. celery sticks are good to munch on at work also I like them dipped in lemon, a... read more »

• Project HUGE: WTF, Waist Line, And Money

  Posted on Sep 16, 2008 at 6:54 PM

  Ben- I think you look hot just the way you are, the thicker the better ;) but, exercise is always healthy and eating right is always important, especially since you're getting so old this weekend :). goooooooo Ben!... read more »

• Got My Sweet-Ass T-Shirts From Steven Levithan's Regular Expression Contest

  Posted on Sep 12, 2008 at 11:12 AM

  No.... It's really just the man! and that you know regular expressions, of course ;)... read more »

• Got My Sweet-Ass T-Shirts From Steven Levithan's Regular Expression Contest

  Posted on Sep 12, 2008 at 9:29 AM

  That is one sexy tee... That is one sexy man whoooo hooo ;) congrats on your win!... read more »

• The Business Of Making Love

  Posted on Jul 29, 2008 at 2:33 PM

  Ben- Exactly, and I am all for that framework :) JFish- I totally agree, balance for the important stuff. Although I am sure your wife is utterly grateful when you do the dishes every once in a while. :)... read more »

• The Business Of Making Love

  Posted on Jul 29, 2008 at 12:50 PM

  The foundation of a good relationship is Love. And to maintain that love there has to be a little something called balance. My soon to be ex husband's passion was Soccer and so because I loved him I learned the game, went to the game, and supported him because that is what he loved. Unfortunately... read more »

• Sex And The City Movie Staring Sarah Jessica Parker

  Posted on Jun 9, 2008 at 5:18 PM

  Ben- I think that a man that can admit enjoying a girl flick is EXTREMELY SEXY! to bad not enough men are men enough to admit, that they do enjoy these types of movies. Too bad cause chicks totally dig that!... read more »